A complete RESILIENCE building program for your kids.

the best me 

Based on proven research, THE BEST ME will teach your child to be RESILIENT.

Designed as a journey of self-discovery and personal growth, your child will find out who they really are and what they are truly capable of.

They will develop the confidence, skills and resources they need to be a success in school and life beyond the classroom.

what the program teaches your child

Whether it's good grades, a place on the team, college admission, an accomplished career, or great relationships- to be successful , your child is going to have to deal with the challenges, obstacles, failures and setbacks that life will throw at them. They are going to have to be RESILIENT.

And the research confirms what you already know from experience: it's how well you do when life doesn't go according to plan that ultimately determines just how successful you are (not your grades).

To overcome these challenges, setbacks, obstacles and failures we have identified 6 key qualities of RESILIENCE:


Resilience isn't just about having one or two of these qualities, to be fully RESILIENT, your child will need all of them, working in harmony.

You never know what circumstances you will face, and by developing these 6 strengths, your child will possess the ability to deal with whatever situation life throws at them.

your child will learn specifically

  • ZEST: how to approach each and every day with the energy, enthusiasm and determination they need to tackle the challenges and obstacles they face in pursuit of their goals.
  • HOPEFUL: how to have a positive attitude so that when things go wrong your child will know how to draw upon their optimism, faith, and self-belief to see things through.
  • SELF-REGULATION: unglamorous but necessary- your child will learn self-discipline, self-control and how to make good decisions.
  • CREATIVITY: your child will learn how to solve challenges and obstacles through developing their creative thinking ability- also a great way to future-proof them against technology.
  • BRAVERYrejection and failure are on the opposite side of the success coin. Your child will learn how  to be BRAVE, to pick themselves up after each fall, to embrace failure rather than fear it.
  • PERSEVERE: your child will learn how to keep going even when they suffer a setback and how to bounce back from adversity, to not give up even when all looks lost.

It's through learning, developing and practising these strengths and qualities, that your child will develop the confidence and belief that will enable them to flourish: to be their best selves.

how your child will learn- 3 steps

First we start by teaching new behaviours, skills and abilities: how to be BRAVE, to PERSEVERE, to think CREATIVELY, to think POSITIVELY etc...

 Second your child will apply what they have learned, they get to practice their new skills and behaviour in the real world

Third our program will help them to make sense of this learning and their experience, so that they develop the values and beliefs and see themselves as someone who is BRAVE, CREATIVE, OPTIMISTIC etc... 

As the diagram below shows, the deeper down the iceberg you go, the more profound and lasting the change.

the best me that I can be - take a peek inside

Here are just a few of the pages to give you a feel for the program.

  • a workbook that will inspire your child to explore who they really are and discover what they are truly capable of
  • a powerful program of lessons based on the scientific fields of positive psychology and character strengths
  • real world activities and challenges that will help your child to build the self-belief and the confidence to be their best selves
  • your child will learn how to be CREATIVE, BRAVE & RESILIENT and develop a POSITIVE MINDSET, SELF-MOTIVATION and DISCIPLINE
  • you will gain a deeper insight into their life, their dreams and their goals so you can help to guide them along their life journey
  • your child will develop the resources to overcome any of the challenges, obstacles, setbacks and failures that life will throw their way
  • a fun, simple to use, interactive and thought provoking investment in your child and their future

the benefits of the program

We've done all the research and hard work so you don't have to.

It will save you worry, time and energy, so you can get on with the day job: being a great parent.

Your child will learn how to be successful- in whatever they choose to do.

As your child begins to make sense of life and has better skills to cope, you will see an improvement in their attitude, behaviour and results.

It's an opportunity for you to get to know them better, to build a stronger and closer relationship as you guide them through the program- or better still, do it with them.

what you get when you buy the BEST me program

  1. 1
    THE BEST ME WORKBOOK: the full program for your child to work through.
  2. 2
    STRENGTH BUILDING WORKBOOK: 13 extra RESILIENCE strength building activities.
  3. 3
    FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: lifetime membership and FULL SUPPORT in our THE BEST ME community. 

FULL SUPPORT means we'll be there to guide you and your child along this journey whenever you need it.

In the Facebook Community we will answer any question you may have.

We post daily hints and tips and you'll get a free strength/ life skill building activity each month to help your child develop even further. 

Both manuals are digital downloads for you to print out at your convenience for use at home, so you can start straight away.

30 Day No Questions Asked Money-Back Guarantee

You are fully protected by our 100% Satisfaction-Guarantee. If you don't see an improvement in your child's resilience over the next 30 days, just let us know and we'll send you a prompt refund. 

the best you that you can be

THE BEST ME is a brilliant self-help guide and based on personal experience we totally recommend doing it alongside your kids.

  • It will help you to become the best version of you too- rediscover your passion and become the person you always knew you could be.
  • By doing it together you will both gain a deeper understanding of their true nature, their unique strengths, abilities, and what they are capable of. They will also get to know you a bit better too.
  • You will enjoy a much DEEPER CONNECTION and BETTER RELATIONSHIP with your child built on understanding and trust.
  • You will be a much more POSITIVE PARENT, instead of parenting by correcting your kids' mistakes- you will look for what your kids are doing right instead of wrong, be more supportive and inspiring.

what others say about our work

The main focus is to help you discover your own values and put your own plan into action, as opposed to telling you what to do.

LAURA CLARK​// The Butterfly Mother

It is presented in a very straightforward and easy to read manner and I can already see that there is value in the takeaway.

ALICIA ANTONIO// The Bottle Poppin Mamma

teach your kids recommendation
I would highly recommend to any parent needing to get in the here and now of parenting… but also who wants to look to the future too.

TALYA STONE​// Motherhood: The Real Deal



It's for your tween and/or teen. Whether they are struggling or not, it will help them to understand themselves and develop the attitude, techniques and skills they need for a successful life. 


There is no set duration. Your child should complete THE BEST ME in the time frame that's appropriate to them. The workbook is a journey of discovery and it encourages your child to practice their new skills in the real world through weekly challenges, so your child will be working on themselves all the time.

However, in terms of actual time commitment, from start to finish we would estimate around 8 weeks with an hour or so a week that should be allocated to actual 'work'.


We are parents too (11-year-old twins). We realised that success in life is more than just qualifications and a good CV, and yet this is all that parents and schools seem to focus on.

So we started out by trying to teach our twins life skills in a deliberate and structured way. Our initial research told us that other parents were worried that their kids weren’t getting this type of education either, so we created Lifehacksforkids to fulfil that need. You can read more about us here.


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Send us an email and we will refund you right away, no questions asked.

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