the life manual you wish that you'd had when you were growing up

Help your child to develop the skills they need for success in school and their life beyond.

Being a tween or a teen is perhaps the most important stage in the development of your child.

It's a time when your kids are forming the ideas and beliefs that will shape the sort of person they will become.

You want to do your bit: to help them develop into happy, confident human beings, ready to take on life and to do well. Therefore, the quality of the guidance that you can give your kids, especially at this delicate stage, is vital.

But, its not only knowing what to teach them and how, it's also having the time and the energy to do the job as well as you'd like, and as well as they need you to!

Being a parent in the modern world is not easy, so we created a solution that will take care of this for you:

the best me that I can be

Based on proven research, THE BEST ME THAT I CAN BE is a program that has been designed to take your child on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth.

It will help them to find out who they really are and what they are truly capable of.

It will also help them to develop the confidence, skills and resources they need to be a success in school and life beyond the classroom.

what the program will teach your child

Whether it's getting good grades, a place on the team, college admission, an accomplished career, or great relationships- to be successful , your child is going to have to deal with the challenges, obstacles, failures and setbacks that life will throw at them.

And the research confirms what you already know from experience: it's how well you do when life doesn't go according to plan that ultimately determines just how successful you are (not your grades).

To overcome these challenges, setbacks, obstacles and failures we have identified 6 key qualities or strengths:


With these qualities in their toolbox, your child will be ready for anything.

your child will learn

  • to approach life with the ZEST and energy needed to tackle the challenges and obstacles they face in pursuit of their goals. Life is never easy, and to successfully overcome failures and setbacks successfully, your child will need to do so with energy, enthusiasm and determination.
  • how to have a HOPEFUL attitude so that they can be positive about themselves, their life, their effort and their outcomes. It's precisely when we need HOPE the most that we feel it the least. When things go wrong your child will need a positive-can-do attitude, optimism, faith, and the self-belief to act and to see things through.
  • to develop SELF-REGULATION; the focus, and the discipline needed to achieve their goals and to be successful. Unglamorous but necessary- without it your child is in trouble: self-discipline, good decisions, control of thoughts, words, emotions and actions are all fundamental to success.
  • how to think CREATIVELY; an essential but often overlooked part of success. To solve life's challenges, to overcome it's inevitable obstacles- the more creative the thinker, the better the potential solution.
  • to develop their BRAVERY; rejection and failure are on the opposite side of the success coin. Your child will need to be BRAVE enough to pick themselves up after each fall, and they'll need to learn how to embrace failure rather than fear it.
  • to PERSEVERE; to keep going after yet another setback, to bounce back from adversity, to not give up on their goals even when all looks lost, are essential components of being resilient and ultimately successful.

It's through learning, developing and practising these strengths and qualities, that your child will develop the confidence and belief that will enable them to flourish: to be their best selves.

how your child will learn- 3 steps

First we start by teaching new behaviours, skills and abilities: your child will learn how to be BRAVE, to PERSEVERE, to think CREATIVELY, to think POSITIVELY etc...

 Second your child will apply what they have learned, they get to experience (use, think and feel) their new skills and behaviour in the real world

Third our program will help them to make sense of this learning and their experience, so that they develop the values and beliefs and see themselves as someone who is BRAVE, CREATIVE, OPTIMISTIC etc... 

As the diagram below shows, the deeper down the iceberg you go, the more profound and lasting the change.

the best me that I can be - take a peek inside

Here are just a few of the pages to give you a feel for the program.

  • a workbook that will inspire your child to explore who they really are and discover what they are truly capable of
  • a powerful program of lessons based on the scientific fields of positive psychology and character strengths
  • real world activities and challenges that will help your child to build the self-belief and the confidence to be their best selves
  • your child will learn how to be CREATIVE, BRAVE & RESILIENT and develop a POSITIVE MINDSET, SELF-MOTIVATION and DISCIPLINE
  • you will gain a deeper insight into their life, their dreams and their goals so you can help to guide them along their life journey
  • your child will develop the resources to overcome any of the challenges, obstacles, setbacks and failures that life will throw their way
  • a fun, simple to use, interactive and thought provoking investment in your child and their future

the benefits of the program

We've done all the research and hard work so you don't have to.

It will save you worry, time and energy, so you can get on with the day job: being a great parent.

Your child will learn how to be successful- in whatever they choose to do.

As your child begins to make sense of life and has better skills to cope, you will see an improvement in their attitude, behaviour and results.

It's an opportunity for you to get to know them better, to build a stronger and closer relationship as you guide them through the program- or better still, do it with them.

what you get when you buy the BEST me program

  1. 1
    THE BEST ME WORKBOOK: the full program for your child to work through.
  2. 2
    STRENGTH BUILDING WORKBOOK: 13 extra RESILIENCE strength building activities.
  3. 3
    FACEBOOK COMMUNITY: lifetime membership and FULL SUPPORT in our THE BEST ME community. 

FULL SUPPORT means we'll be there to guide you and your child along this journey whenever you need it.

In the Facebook Community we will answer any question you may have.

We post daily hints and tips and you'll get a free strength/ life skill building activity each month to help your child develop even further. 

Both manuals are digital downloads for you to print out at your convenience for use at home, so you can start straight away.

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If, for any reason, you don't like the FULL program, you can get a full refund anytime within 30 days after your purchase.

the best you that you can be

THE BEST ME is a brilliant self-help guide and based on personal experience we totally recommend doing it alongside your kids.

  • It will help you to become the best version of you too- rediscover your passion and become the person you always knew you could be.
  • By doing it together you will both gain a deeper understanding of their true nature, their unique strengths, abilities, and what they are capable of. They will also get to know you a bit better too.
  • You will enjoy a much DEEPER CONNECTION and BETTER RELATIONSHIP with your child built on understanding and trust.
  • You will be a much more POSITIVE PARENT, instead of parenting by correcting your kids' mistakes- you will look for what your kids are doing right instead of wrong, be more supportive and inspiring.

what others say about our work

The main focus is to help you discover your own values and put your own plan into action, as opposed to telling you what to do.

LAURA CLARK​// The Butterfly Mother

It is presented in a very straightforward and easy to read manner and I can already see that there is value in the takeaway.

ALICIA ANTONIO// The Bottle Poppin Mamma

teach your kids recommendation
I would highly recommend to any parent needing to get in the here and now of parenting… but also who wants to look to the future too.

TALYA STONE​// Motherhood: The Real Deal



It's for your tween and/or teen. Whether they are struggling or not, it will help them to understand themselves and develop the attitude, techniques and skills they need for a successful life. 


There is no set duration. Your child should complete THE BEST ME in the time frame that's appropriate to them. The workbook is a journey of discovery and it encourages your child to practice their new skills in the real world through weekly challenges, so your child will be working on themselves all the time.

However, in terms of actual time commitment, from start to finish we would estimate around 8 weeks with an hour or so a week that should be allocated to actual 'work'.


We are parents too (11-year-old twins). We realised that success in life is more than just qualifications and a good CV, and yet this is all that parents and schools seem to focus on.

So we started out by trying to teach our twins life skills in a deliberate and structured way. Our initial research told us that other parents were worried that their kids weren’t getting this type of education either, so we created Lifehacksforkids to fulfil that need. You can read more about us here.


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